Sunday, 28 July 2013

No! You will NOT steal Our daughters' rights

I was looking for a link for soft bones when I happened to come across a video made by Stella Damascus, a Nigerian actress who has turned her attentions to issues of injustice and the abuse of power in the Nigerian government and its relationship with her citizens. I switched on the video and was consequently appalled by the subject to which she was raising her voice in protest and the more I listened, the more powerful was the need I felt for me to join my voice in outrage with Stella and every self respecting person, woman, young lady, teenage girl and persons who were doing the same, for our outrage was not for the lack of where to expend our energies but an honest response to the nonsensical unbelievable blatant attack on the defenceless young female child of Nigeria.

And we all know that if we keep quiet on this issue, then we have basically metaphorically packed the bags of young girls who haven't developed physically, who are innocent in the ways of men, who lack any understanding  of the emotion of love outside that of parents , siblings and in some cases extended families and handed them over together with these girls to sex crazed, paedophilic twisted monsters who do not deserve to be called men for real men don't want children in their beds but real women, matured, fully developed and well versed in the act and art of love, loving and its making. They also do not deserve to be called animals for they also give the majority of this genre a bad name, so we shall call them only that which they truly are-monsters.

This news of members of the house of senate in Nigeria sitting down to discuss , yes you have read right, they sat down to discuss and deliberate on  making  the marriage of young girls, young girls meaning from as little as 9 years old upwards legal. I will ask you to take a moment to let this news sink by reading the above two lines over again for maybe ten times? Please look up this link to read the entire crazy story
Who can imagine that in this modern world, grown ass men who may have travelled around the world and who may have young daughters of their own would sit to vote that the raping and destruction of a girl's childhood be made legal?!

How are we to stand up and hold our heads high as a nation when we come from a country whose government says paedophiles are not only welcome but they are safe to look, touch and do unmentionable, unthinkable things  to young female children, things that even full grown , sexually active women would balk at? How? It is ironic that as the UK had made moves to close down loop holes and windows that these monsters still use to try and practice their twisted ways; Nigeria flings her gates wide open and declares a banquet,   handing out putrid tickets declaring a buffet! I am deeply ashamed.

Again, difficult as it is to be a Nigerian in diaspora with every vice we've got going on (let's be honest, we're the butt of every comedian's internet fraud joke), our government then decides to drop in another hot potato we can add to the ones we juggle daily trying to prove to the world and ourselves that we are not the norm but the exception. I am so ashamed and agree that every so called mother who is part of these senators, legislators, governing body, whatever they want to call it and is in the corridor or political power and yet allowed this abomination to happen under their noses should snatch off their head-ties and hang their heads in shame, then they should be clean shaven and have their young daughters taken away from them for they have shown with their inability to protect the nation's daughters, that they are unfit to raise and protect their own (and if any was harbouring plans of whisking them abroad to 'protect' them, then they too will experience the helplessness that the average Mrs faces) I spit on them and spit on the men legislators through whom further shame has been brought down on Nigeria's name.

Did they really think they could sneak that bill right behind us and we would only suddenly discover it one unfortunate day? Money  or is it power must really make a man mad! How the matter even became something that came up for debate amongst the numerous disasters going on in our country, defies all common sense! And that the president did not think that this was something to say ' No way ! not on my watch will this happen and that is final' (common, he said something to that point when it was suggested that he  should declare his expenses, so why not this?).

And please don't get me started on his bumbling mess of a over self inflated wife! She is always so quick to add her miscounted, misspelt and mispronounced two pence into every matter discussed in the country irrespective of if she needed to or not. So why has she not spoken up? Has she come up with no change? Or has the proverbial caught her tongue or has she suddenly gotten a severe case of laryngitis and lost her voice completely? Personally, I had always been ashamed of her and her farcical bumbling about mashing up the English language like a bull in a china shop, However now, I am doubling so and wish she would wrap her head in one of those ridiculous head-ties of hers and hopefully walk slap bang into a very hard concrete wall.

Somewhere somehow, the government has tried to pass this off as a religious thing but they seem to forget that Nigeria is not a religious state, therefore it is not a Muslim, Christian, Buddhist or African traditionalist country. In Nigeria, everyone are free to practice whatever religion they so please freely though it seems that a certain group which is not representative of the general larger group and some members of the senate did not get that particular memo. God has not and did not sanction the abuse of a 9 years and upwards girl child for the gratification of some smelly old 60 upward old fart! So those lawmakers who are trying to force the perceived notion of God's agenda for the absolute enjoyment of man especially at the expense of girl and woman, need to know that the majority will not take on the delusions of the minority. Our rights to freedom of worship or the lack thereof was won by blood and daily many still shed blood for that right because we still say no, we will not be forced into a situation just to make some illiterate, backward hillbillies happy. So shame on the lawmakers who tried to make this barbaric action a religious one. May God in all his collective identities rain His wrath on you.

I stand together with Stella Damascus and say 'shame on you all for saying our daughters' young bodies should be your profane playing ground! Shame on you all!

Friday, 17 August 2012

Romance Scammers

I had heard about these scams going on and wondered how gullible a person had to be to be sucked into the scam, but I have to tell you, I've found out that it's very easy!

The scammer takes on the identity of a perfect professional person, nice picture in place and nice but sparce details about themselves but what is paramount is that they wish to meet a person who just wants to be loved and they are very quick to commit to a life long relationship.

But how is one to protect themselves from these scammers? How does one identify them?

First thing is that most of them can't spell for toffee! It's strange but when a so-called 'engineer can't even speall 'sweet' or 'gorgeous' or 'beautiful' then there is a problem there, no so?

Second, they are very quick to want to get you off the dating site or professional site on which you met, they either want you on hotmail, yahoo or this new email site ymail. Be very careful when someone states that they feel that you'd be able to chat better with them on your personal email.

Third, ok, you've moved to private email, they start to flood you with a lot of questions, asking about your life, your job etc. Please don't be flattered that they are interested in you. they are just trying to source you out, see if you're worth playing the game with.

Fourth, they are very quick to suggest and agree to any plans of long term relationship. They use a lot of 'baby, sweetie, darling' and all that jazz that we unfortunately love to hear from the person we think loves us most. My dear, wake up, it's all a lie!

Fifth, once you're well hooked, that's when the demands start and note, they have international numbers, so they will have a number say like T-mobile which offers reduced tariff for roaming but if they claim to be white, they will never have a webcam, they will always claim a reason why it's not working but they will ask you to put yours on and if you're not careful, you may fall into strip teasing for a group of perverts! (This is why having Jesus in your life makes the difference!) LOL

Then, if they manage to call you, they usually have a jacked up accent which they claim is American or British, don't fall for this, always ask questions and you'll find that their phone suddenly runs out of cedit and so they can't call. They try everything to get you to call them so that their scam is cost effective.

So what else can you do to be sure that you're not talking to some fake ass scammer? Go online, use their instrument against them! Check their names, email addresses and you'll be sure to discover that they come up on some scammer website, try and find out details from them; things like schools, degrees, simple colloquialisms of whatever culture they claim to be from and insist they come online with a webcam. They usually either run off or stupidly keep trying to get you to fall in line. Now that's when you have my permission to go on the last thing.

Go crazy, gangsta mad on them; curse them to the tenth generation, tell them how their scam will send them to jail! However, that is the omota way (forgive me, I'm still trying to work my issues out) The Lord help me.

The better way, is to get them arrested. Now I haven't been able to find out what to do yet, I'm asking for advice from professionals who deal with these guys from hell because I too, have an 'American'(scammer) on my hands and I'm hoping I can 'darling, dear' him into jail. So keep an eye out for part two.

Here is a taste of what damage these guys can do if you don't protect yourself. However, before seeing that clip, here is a taste of my omota version on one of such scammers who came on my radar. Learn from this

From: Me
To: Tokunbo Williams ( The Scammer
Re: Re: hello gorgeous!


Dem take una curse me?! Another scammer! Look I be original omo Eko! You should be ashamed of yourself! Using another person's picture to be lying and cheating people. God will punish you and your entire family! You sorry excuse for a human being!

You know how to hack computers and steal people's identities and yet you can't spell for toffee! Olodo! Ode! Oponu! You've seen mugu that you'll now mail and say your stupid mother is dying. God punish your mother and father, idiot!

You will never prosper, all your family will be destroyed. May you and all your sisters, aunties and female cousins suffer pain 1000 times worse than the one you cause women with your jibiti! 419 buruku! Ko ni da fun gbogbo idile e, Alakori, olodo rabata!

If you mail me again, may amadioha thunder your head! It will never ever be good for you, you evil beast. Hello gorgeous ko, o ti ri didirin abi? Ole oshi!

Gerrout off my mail jo! Iwo eniti o ni da fun mo lailai yi, ma ko ori buruku e bami jo!

PS: and yes I've just schooled you in how to abuse someone and STILL BE ABLE TO SPELL! OLODO OSHI!

From: Tokunbo Williams (
To: Me
Sent: 13 August 2012 10:38:23

Gdmrng Abi,

How re you doing,i trust ur good n all is well with you? And thanx for getting back to me,i really do apreciate you. And hows ur family,i trust everyone is fine.When i call,i'll tell you anything u want to know about what u asked me but above all am a loving person to be with n i hope ure the same., And dont worry about ur no,i will definately keep it safe.......What i belive av gotton myself into is actually what i love n av been serching for n i thank God av found I will call u soon,take care of urself n av a blessed day.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

From: Me

Sent: 13 August 2012 00:46:48


Hello Tokunbo,

It was nice to read back from you. I hate it myself when I've put out there and the person doesn't bother to respond to me.

Its weird how many names that site seems to have. It really opens up avenues for confusion. Well tell me about yourself,what you're up to, what you do, you know stuff people say to each other when they first meet. I will give you my number and you can call me when you're ready. But just a note of warning, I don't do early mornings, call me before 10am at your own peril!

So you my number wisely and carefully. Lol, I'm sure you're already wondering what you got yourself into.

Well buckle up and you'll find out! 07712346575(Obviously not my real number)

Abi  (Try to keep your first letter as real and chatty as possible)

From: Tokunbo Williams (

Sent: 11 August 2012 17:03:27

To: Me

How are you doing...i trust you are good n all is well with you n family. Thanx for leaving me ur email adress on just black singles,its really thotful of you,i would av been hurt if i av never heard from u again. I hope things re well with u generally n i guess ure enjoyin d wkend or do you work wkends? And hows ur family,i hope everyone is fine. I really do love to hear from you,talk to you n even meet up sometimes if its ok with you. My no is 07448953762,i hope u will call me n if u cant will u kindly send me ur no n i will call you....Hoping to hear from you soon,take care of urself n av a blessed day. Thots Tokunbo williams xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

This guy didn't even try to give himself a chance but more fool him, not so? Well here's the video and after that I tell you: Go with God!

Monday, 13 August 2012

Redefinition and Stuff: Romance Scammers

Redefinition and Stuff: Romance Scammers: I had heard about these scams going on and wondered how gullible a person had to be to be sucked into the scam, but I have to tell you, I've...